Когда тебе страшно, самое лучшее - повернуться лицом к опасности и чувствовать что-то тёплое и надёжное за спиной.
It is an old saying: see the bear in his own den before you judge of his conditions.
People who know a lot of the same things can hardly help talking about them, and if you're there you can hardly help feeling that you're out of it.